i’m karolin.
MSc Clinical Sexology & Couple Therapy | Tantric Yoga Teacher | Holistic Sexuality Educator
When I first began exploring intimacy as a young woman, I couldn’t enjoy it at all. My body seemed to physically refuse it — and I was too embarrassed to talk about it with almost anyone. I saw a counsellor early on who told me there was nothing wrong with me and that I simply needed to relax. That didn’t help, and I didn’t know where else to turn. So for five years I avoided it entirely, quietly carrying something that felt like a personal failure.
The first shift came unexpectedly. I was browsing a library when I came across a book on tantra. I took it home, read it, and signed up for my first course exploring ancient eastern wisdom in intimacy. It opened something in me I hadn’t known was closed. But the journey from there was not linear — some courses were genuinely opening, others were deeply traumatising. I kept blindly following instructions, performing for teachers the way I had performed for partners, trusting external authority over my own body. That was its own kind of mistake, and it added its own kind of hurt.
What gradually began to shift was a combination of things — deep individual work, a period with a partner who gave me space rather than pressure, and years of slowly learning to listen to my own body rather than override it. In that space, something began to open that I hadn’t known was possible.
I went from a woman who avoided intimacy entirely
to one who presents orgasm research to scientists. The path between those two points is what I now teach.
About ten years into this journey — in my late twenties — something extraordinary started happening. I began experiencing instant whole-body energetic orgasms. Not through physical stimulation, but spontaneously, in any circumstance, lasting as long as I chose. When I described this to people, many doubted it was real. That doubt made me curious — not defensive, but genuinely interested in what science might say about what was happening in my body.
About ten years into this journey — in my late twenties — something extraordinary started happening. I began experiencing instant whole-body energetic orgasms. Not through physical stimulation, but spontaneously, in any circumstance, lasting as long as I chose. When I described this to people, many doubted it was real. That made me curious about what science might say about what was happening in my body.
I began reaching out to researchers, writing letters that mostly went unanswered, until I found Dr Jim Pfaus, one of the world’s leading experts in sexual neuroscience. He agreed to meet. I flew to Canada. He designed a case study and instructed me in conducting it — measuring my hormone levels during these self-induced whole-body orgasms. The results were significant and novel — within months I was presenting them at the International Academy of Sex Research conference in Mexico. The research was later published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. The world media picked it up and it spread everywhere.
I still find it extraordinary — that the young woman who once couldn’t enjoy intimacy at all ended up presenting orgasm research to scientists.
Dr Pfaus encouraged me to take the work further. So I completed a Master’s degree in Clinical Sexology and Couple Therapy, writing my thesis on orgasms and sexual satisfaction. And all of it — the struggle, the wrong turns, the breakthroughs, the science, and the years of sitting with hundreds of women hearing their stories — became the foundation of what I teach now.
I know this path from the inside. Every part of it. That’s why I can walk beside you on yours.
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